Miles Friedman, as consultant on economic development and author of Your Father Has Alzheimer's:  A Guide for Baby Boomers in Dealing with Our Aging Parents, will relate his experiences related to serious illness.  When a loved one is diagnosed with a critical or terminal condition, how do you cope?  How do you actively seek a positive outlook?  How, as caregivers, can you prioritize your own health so that you are able to help your loved one to the best of your ability?  What are the most effective approaches to ensuring the best possible quality of life for the patient?